Monday, February 26, 2024
Saying Thank You Isn’t Easy
Monday, June 5, 2023
Honoring A Donor During A Moment Of The Celebration Of Success & Achievement
Thursday, June 1, 2023
We Cannot Rescue The Whole Of Humanity - But We Can - One Human at a Time
Saturday, March 5, 2022
The Ukraine Tragedy And The Danger It Represents To Humanity
Hi Brian,
Greetings from Bhutan. It is my hope that this finds you well and safe.
One Ms. Barb Roberts of Australia tells me that she has deposited a sum of $200.00 into the bank account of Disaster Aid Australia. I shall appreciate if you could acknowledge the same.
This money was intended to be paid to a Bhutanese student in Punakha - as her annual contribution towards the boy’s education. When she sought my help in remitting the money from Australia to Bhutan, I requested her to credit the amount into the DAA’s bank account and that I would pay the boy in Punakha - the counter value in local currency.
I would like to explain that this amount is a small amount that I am offering – not as a donation or as a contribution to augment the DAA’s endeavors to come to the aid of the human tragedy that is current in Ukraine. This amount represents my share - my due, as a member of the human society - towards the global community’s response with kindness and generosity - towards an act of mindless brutality by a man gone completely insane.
I accept that our engagement is not intended to influence the outcome of the invasion, but to help contain the humanitarian tragedy and suffering that is the fallout of this act of brutality by Russian President Putin. I am honored to channel my share through your organization - the DAA - an organization that has helped thousands of Bhutanese children through your one million dollars “BHUTAN2020” safe water project in Bhutan. It is my misfortune that I am in no position to honor DAA in more meaningful ways – than these words of gratitude expressed earnestly and with honesty.
What Putin has dared do in Ukraine sets a dangerous precedence. He has not only vandalized a peaceful country and its innocent people, he intimidated the global community with the threat of use of nuclear weapons. Wisely, the world leaders are aware of the outcome of such an eventuality. But Putin must be made aware that there are other ways in which he can be taught a lesson – that he may win a war – but he will lose the battle. No amount of justification is justification enough for the destruction of human life and properties that he is causing to the Ukrainians, and, through them the world community who too will stand to suffer in this interconnected world.
Allowing Putin to win is not an option. Particularly not for small countries like Bhutan and Taiwan. The world community needs to demonstrate to Putin and others like him waiting in the wings - that no one can, and should, act with such utter disregard for human decency – just because he has nuclear bombs as his bargaining chip.
Bye and take care.
Saturday, January 15, 2022
Life-long Journey of Charity and Community Service
I may have severed my ties with a charitable organization – but it appears that my journey of charity and community service has not ended. Yet again, I got drawn in into another charity work – that of the donation of a house to a destitute old couple in Tama-Gonphai village in Zhemgang. The donors – Tarayana Foundation affiliated Bhutan Dragons Motorcycle Club – agreed to fund the construction of the house provided I act as the coordinator to the project. Well, why not? It is a uniquely fascinating idea – have fun riding to remote places and at the end of the journey – do a meaningful charity work that bring happiness and cheer in the lives of some poor country men.
Ably managed by the Tama-Berti Chiwog Tshogpa Ms. Kinzang Deki, the project took a little over two months – although severely hampered by the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic. The implementation of the project began on 15th October, 2021. By mid-December the construction of the house, including a separate toilet, was completed. It was handed over to the grateful old couple on the 7th of January 2022.
As has become a norm with me, all my numerous project implementations end with a detailed Project Completion Report to the donors. The following are few pages from my Project Completion Report to the immediate past project donors - Bhutan Dragons Motorcycle Club:
Curtesy of donors around the globe, I have implemented close to 100 projects and have been party to 7 more Rotary Projects that are currently in the pipeline. But one lesson that the latest donors taught me is this: Do not just give an empty house - to make the charity even more meaningful and valuable, populate the house with some basic essentials, such as mattresses, water boilers, rice cooker, curry cooker, buckets etc. etc. This is a life-lesson I will remember in my future charity endeavors.
I am happy to say that this project is the second project that has been implemented with quality and speed, due solely to the hard work of the Tama-Berti Chiwog Tshogpa and hassle-free funding by the donors. The other community service project that was implemented at a speed that will be hard to match - is the Rotary Club of Thimphu's toilet project in Bongo village, Chhukha Dzongkhag. Due to the hard work and diligence of the coordinator there - Mr. Sangay Thinley, the incumbent EDO of Chhukha Dzongkhag Administration, the construction of 36 detached, pour-flush toilets with bath facility was completed in record 35 days!
Tuesday, January 11, 2022
Drin Jorpa Warey
This is the second time that has happened to me.
The first time was when my mom was about to pass away – it was as if she knew for sure that her moment had arrived. It was in Gelephu sometime in the late 1970s. My mom was bed-ridden – she was suffering from cancer. One afternoon she called me to her bedside and took my hand into hers. She removed her gold ring from her finger and inserted in into mine, saying:
"Okai ngai shuijab wen warey – Ngatna khachem jang labtemen mooth – pholab theg labtey weth na. Wii werai aama na drinlab khaba khriba jorba warey. Weth nyai bo buzey ngat sonam sakna."
"This is my parting gift to you – I have no last words for you. But I want to tell you something. Please know that you have fulfilled a son’s duty and obligation to his mother in full. I have been blessed to have you as my son."
Hours later she breathed her last.
The second time was on the 7th of this month. I had gone to Tama-Gonphai village to participate in the handing over ceremony of a house built for an old destitute couple by the Tarayana Foundation affiliated Bhutan Dragons Motorcycle Club. After the ceremony was over, I walked over to the old lady to ask if there was anything else they needed. She said she needed nothing more, adding:
"Wii mebran – wheth chiingku buzi nyigmo ngui weth nyai kaidoh sama bakpa. Dusoom wii osokai maigey roram buzey ---- we ngatna drinlab khaba khriba jorpa warey."
"You do not know – but when you were a child I carried you on my back many, many times. Please know that today with your participation in this house donation, you have paid your debt to me in full."
I was clueless about this - but that is not important.
No less touching was a letter of farewell written to me by Rotary Club of Thimphu’s Executive Secretary – Ms Tshering Choden. The letter was waiting for me on my table when I returned from Zhemgang on the 8th – it read as follows:
The Club President and the Club Secretary wanted to give me a farewell dinner – I declined saying that the Club was poor and could not afford it. I did not need a dinner that would cost between Nu.20-30,000.00. The letter written by ES Tshering is far more touching and meaningful than any dinner. It acknowledges my relevance – that I have given back to the society from which I took so much.
This letter is my JUST REWARD for my 7 years of service.
Monday, June 18, 2018
Please Surrender Your Subsidized LPG Cylinders
Thursday, June 15, 2017
Third Rotary Service Project During the Month
The Rotary Club of Thimphu has also part-funded the creation of play facilities, including the turfing of the playground at the Changangkha SEN School, Thimphu.
Wednesday, June 14, 2017
Second Rotary Service Project During the Month
This project funded by the Rotary Club of Kushiro, Japan will be the last of the water supply projects that we will do in urban schools. During our last weekly Meeting held on Friday the 9th June, 2017, the Club decided that we will no longer support water supply projects in the urban schools. The rationale behind this decision is that the parents in urban schools are financially competent enough to contribute small sums towards the well-being and health of their children. This we believe is not true of parents in the rural schools.
This year, the Rotary Club hopes to be doing 5-6 safe drinking water supply projects in the schools. They will all be for schools in the rural areas.
In addition to safe drinking water supplies, the Rotary Club of Thimphu was hoping to contribute significantly in strengthening the SEN (Special Education Needs) schools in the country. In fact we already have one of the world’s leading authorities on the subject willing to undertake a study and produce a road map on how to go about doing this – in Bhutan’s current 14 SEN schools spread across the country. All free of professional fees! Once the study is done and a road map is charted out, the Rotary Club of Thimphu would then promote the proposal to its 35,000 Clubs and 1.3 million Members around the world, to take up the implementation of the proposals.
Tuesday, June 13, 2017
The Rotary Club Of Thimphu Serves The Living, As Well As The Dead
To my none-Buddhist readers: In our Buddhist belief, some deaths occur on days/nights that are considered inauspicious – depending on the astrological sign of one’s birth. During such occasions, the body of the departed cannot be cremated and, in some cases, it cannot even be moved out of the premises where the death had occurred. The body has to remain in the same place and cannot be cremated for a period of time until the astrological calculations permit for it to be moved to the cremation grounds for cremation. Until that time the body needs preserving, most often by putting them into freezers, to prevent decay and deterioration. This is where the freezers become useful.
Sunday, February 26, 2017
Langdhurbi: Take 2
Sonam Dorji is back to his village in Langdhurbi and continues his studies at the local community school. What the future holds for him is anybody’s guess. The talent that is latent in him is something I wish I could help him unleash but I do not have the means to do so. And I suspect I am the poorer for leading him to the stars but not being able to help him touch them.
As I prod along on the path of life that must inevitably end in nothingness, I think of this extremely talented boy languishing in abject helplessness in some remote wilderness. If he were a little bit luckier --- if I were a little bit more economically able, he could have one day serenaded the best of the best. But that is not how the story will be written – for all his talent, he is destined to be lost in the sands of oblivion – one potential shining star whose luminosity will not see the light of day.
Sonam Dorji’s trip to Thimphu this year was sponsored by Hotel Jumolhari and writer Chador Wangmo provided food and accommodation for the boy and his aunt who escorted him. Hotel Druk was generous to provide one end-of-session dinner for the boy and his tutors.
Saturday, July 9, 2016
Journey of Hope and Awakening: Day IX
I am finally relieved that everything went off smoothly and without any incidence. I was on tenterhooks until the news that they have reached their area safely. Being monsoon, there was always a chance of some mishap. I had made sure that the escorts keep us updated of their movement because I know that the road of good intentions does not always lead to heaven.
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Journey of Hope and Awakening: Day III
A detailed report of this service project by the Rotary Club of Thimphu will be uploaded in the coming days.
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Journey of Hope and Awakening: Day II
For the children it was a dream experience - for me it is my hope that this exposure would have inspired one or two of them to work hard and study hard to achieve what many they have seen have achieved in their lives.